Yes, I've read the faq, and I've got the extra recipients enabled but while it is helpful, it doesn't fully do what I want.
I was really looking for an alternative to UddeIM, but I will try posting there and see what they say.
I would be surprised if I am the only CB site manager with this requirement. I wonder how other site managers communicate with their moderators? Perhaps I am not using the best method.
Thanks
Brian