Hi Kyle
the 'scenario' at the moment is as follows:
1)User 'A' adds user 'B' as a buddy....then user 'B' is visible in the 'manage connection' tab of user 'A' (as a buddy)
2) If user 'B' (who is also logged in) opens his tab: 'manage Connections with me' he will see user 'A' who is in this list.
3) User 'B' deletes now user 'A' in his tab 'manage Connections with me'...
4) If user 'A' logs in and opens the tab 'manage connections'...user 'B' is not visible anymore as a 'buddy'...
...I think this is not correct....