Thanks for the quick response. Sorry I didn't think to do that first (error reporting). I'll paste the error below...
I should mention that it didn't have the issue before the upgrade (nor on the live site). I thought maybe it could be one of my templates (one in community builder, one in CB Activity (which I instantly re-wrote activity.php right after the upgrade, and the Joomla template) - so I changed the CB templates to default and the Joomla template to Protostar. Still same error.
As far as PHP version, it's currently (and on previous version) at 5.6. I changed it to 7.0 and checked.... still got the same error.
Like I mentioned, it does fix the issue, both turning the SEF URLs plugin off and also by changing the maximum pcre.backtrack_limit. But it seems very very slow. Even though it's set to load the feed as the user scrolls, it feels like it's loading all feeds when the page loads. I say that because it seems to make a huge difference between going to someone's profile with 10 posts and someone's profile with 100 posts.
I know you've been working on scale-ability, which I'm sure you were and I'm excited about too... so I can't imagine that being an issue unless it's specific to something with my server setup. Using InMotion. Their servers are very fast and it's a rarity, but... after a few years with them and a good handful of clients using them, there has been website issues that they've fixed by installing various 'forgotten' modules, etc. (even on the shared). So I haven't ruled that out.
I'll continue to look at it tomorrow. Especially since I don't know whether the issue is on your end or mine. Tried ruling everything out. Hate it when I've asked you guys for help and you help me... but it ends up being something I did. Feel bad in those cases - and I would hope other people would also try to rule things out that they might have done before hitting up the(ir) developer.
ONLY ERROR (Joomla
PHP regular expression limit reached (pcre.backtrack_limit)
Call stack
# Function Location
1 JApplicationCms->execute() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/index.php:49
2 JApplicationSite->render() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/libraries/cms/application/cms.php:267
3 JApplicationCms->render() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/libraries/cms/application/site.php:773
4 JApplicationBase->triggerEvent() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/libraries/cms/application/cms.php:1092
5 JEventDispatcher->trigger() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/libraries/joomla/application/base.php:106
6 JEvent->update() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/libraries/joomla/event/dispatcher.php:159
7 call_user_func_array() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/libraries/joomla/event/event.php:69
8 PlgSystemSef->onAfterRender()
9 PlgSystemSef->checkBuffer() /home/n1303a5/public_html/website.aero/dev/plugins/system/sef/sef.php:158